Added: Rick Wenner - Date: 30.12.2021 00:39 - Views: 37753 - Clicks: 7581
You believe your life will begin once you have the love of your life. You believe in happily ever after in the way that you think once you find that special someone you will feel fulfilled, content and joyous every day. Love is fulfilling, contentment and joyousness, but it is certainly not guaranteed to always be that. You are fixated on what the relationship can do for you, not what you can give to it.
More often than not, it leaves us completely unfulfilled, disappointed or heartbroken, and the other person with a serious inferiority complex.
This is not love. Such is the case in many instances of infidelity: people are no longer getting what they want, and so they seek it elsewhere.
You just jump from one to the next. The qualities you are most concerned about in a partner are ones that are rooted in self-interest. You believe that having love will make you feel worth being loved. You have a propensity to be unfaithful. In addition to these, you have low self esteem, lack of positive role models or feel unloved by parents, siblings, etc. But it is also something to consider when trying to differentiate real love from being in love with the idea of love.
Now, this is not uncommon in the honeymoon phases of love, but the difference is whether or not you are genuinely trying to control those urges. These words are for us all. Beyond Worthyby Jacqueline Whitney. You may unsubscribe at any time.
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