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There is something magical about meeting a guy you like … and discovering he likes you back. All of us have a habit of seeing what we want to see. Of holding onto the s that indicate reality is as we want it to be, no matter how minute those s may be. It was only when I took off the rose-colored glasses and looked at things through an objective lens that I could see the truth. So here we go. But first, I want to share a personal story just to show you that I really truly get it.
Several years back I met the man of my dreams. He was sweet, funny, engaging, and not to mention, he was insanely hot. We had a bunch of mutual friends so we would run into each other pretty often and every time the chemistry was explosive … at least I thought so!
I spent month obsessing over this. I would make sure to be places where I knew he would be, you know, just in case that was the day he realized he was head over heels in love and finally asked me out. But nope, it was always the same old. Long story short, I brought a girlfriend of mine to a birthday party where he was and the second he saw her everything changed and he immediately got her information and asked her out.
But if I had looked, I would have clearly seen he was demonstrating the s on the list below. When a guy likes you, there is a difference in the way he acts around you. His tone of voice is different, his mannerisms are different, his demeanor is different.
The differences can be subtle, but they will still be there. This makes sense when you think about it. When you like someone, you want them to like you back, so you present yourself in the best possible light. Basking in being your true authentic self comes a little later when things are a bit more established. Forget about how nice or flirty he may be in response to you — this is what trips a lot of women up.
Instead, ask yourself how often he actually reaches out to you. Maybe you go up to him and you guys are having some friendly banter, but then he says he has to go say hi to his friend or he has to get another drink or he has to use the bathroom. So you meet a guy and you feel overcome by the electric chemistry. Some people just have flirty personalities. If he flirts with everyone, then him flirting with you is meaningless.
If the way he flirts with you is different, then he might have feelings for you.
We want to know everything. We want to know exactly how they got from point A to point B in every single area of their lives. We want to know every scar, every scratch, every story, every embarrassing moment. And we remember it all. When a guy is interested in a woman, he shows interest in her. That means he wants to know all about her, he asks tons of questions and really pays attention and takes it all in.
This ties into the point above. A big a guy likes a girl is he remembers the details. When we like someone our brain is in a highly activated state.
We pay attention, we listen closely, and we remember the details. Our brains have so much information to process every single day. Think of your interactions with guys you like.
I bet you remember everything, even the most minute little details. I remember exactly what I was wearing the night I met my husband … and we were 17! A red J-crew spaghetti strap tank top, Mavi jeans, and platform flip-flops, in case you were wondering. The point is, we remember what matters. Or maybe he just has a horrible memory, so just put this in the context of all the other s on the list. He will show up where you are, he will end up in the same part of the room as you, he will just always be around.
We make time for things that are important. With men, the most obvious explanation is usually the correct one. A guy can like a girl and mention other girls being attractive. Talking about them on more than a physical level. We are inviting them into our world because we see the potential for them to become a part of it. When we open up to someone, we are investing in them. Obvious as in no secret codes or hidden clues to uncover. He will make it clear and obvious. Ask yourself that. There you have it.
I know how tough it is to shove your ego out of the way to get that pill down there. But there was no way you could talk me out of that notion at the time! There are plenty out there who are, so focus on them instead. I hope this article gave you clarity on how he feels about you.
Also, did you know that there is one pivotal moment in a relationship that basically determines your fate as a couple? At some point the guy will ask himself: Is this the woman I want to settle down with? Do you know what inspires a man to commit, as opposed to seeing a woman as just a fling?
I love writing relatable, insightful articles that help people understand relationship dynamics and how to get the love they want. I have a degree in psychology and have spent the last 10 years interviewing countless men and reading and studying as much as I can to better understand human psychology and how men operate. If you want to get in touch with me, hit me up on Facebook or Instagram.
Men are allowed to not be attracted to a woman. It seems that women think that men have a damn cheek when they are not interested in a woman. It seems that women these days are doing their very best to utterly alienate men. What would you say?
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