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The most painful part about a breakup is oftentimes the uncertainty.
Deep down you are hoping that the relationship can be salvaged and the love re-instated. That was also one of the many questions I asked myself after a painful breakup. Even though it had already been more than a year since our amicable breakup, I was still wondering whether we had a chance of rekindling our love. After all, we did not break up because we hated each other or someone cheated, but simply because he had moved to New York City for work, while I remained in Atlanta. Well, besides God brought us back together fact that by now I was a digital nomad in Medellin, Colombia with no foreseeable return to the United States of America anytime soon.
But still. We had a very strong soul ti e which made it seem like we were never truly apart. And if you have been broken up for a while, you start to wonder whether that relationship is meant to be at all. To give you a tiny bit of comfort during this time, I decided to share the s that God will restore your dating relationship.
When we idolize the relationship, are not ready for the relationship, or the relationship was solely built on infatuation, we have to trust that God broke it up for a good reason. And I know it is not easy to accept that, because we want what we want. However, as Christian, we have to make sure that our desire for God is bigger than the desires of our flesh. Truth is, I have seen God restoring dating relationships over and over again. Once both people were mature enough and ready to step into his purpose for their lives, they would find their way back to each other. I, myself have experienced that.
My boyfriend and I broke up two years ago and found our way back to each other recently. Even though I had appreciated a faster reconciliation God brought us back together in his timing. So, we have to understand that nothing God does happens because WE want it. It happens because God has a God brought us back together that is unfolding with us in it. And sometimes that plan involves a second chance with your ex-boyfriend. As I mentioned above, some relationships end because you simply got together prematurely. Maybe the relationship was built on lust, or both of you were not yet willing to commit.
Whatever it was, for some reason you were not ready to serve each other as partners and broke up. However, once both of you have done the inner work and are ready to commit to a relationship, God may bring your ex back into your life. Because the truth is, there is a difference between wanting a relationship and being truly ready for a relationship. As a single woman, you want to ensure that your heart, body, and mind are ready to receive the man God has for you at any time, otherwise you risk losing him the moment he appears.
A good way to do that is by seeking guidance. You can do that through reading, talking to wise council, or getting coaching. There are many steps you can take now that will help you get ready. Another common reason why relationships end is that we are too self-centered, immature, or disrespectful. You may have had selfish tendencies, been argumentative, or even lacked self-esteem in the past.
However, if you have done some work on yourself and grown as a person things can change. Your ex-boyfriend is just as much of God as you are. Therefore, God will only want you to get back together with your ex, once you are His best as well.
It is crucial that you use your season of separation to identify the reasons why you broke up and then do the work it takes to become a better partner. For a lot of single women, being in a relationship or getting married is very important. So much so that it can easily become an idol and we accept anything or anyone in order to get the title.
Before God can bring you two back together, you will need to completely surrender your relationship and your ex-boyfriend to him. The goal is to feel and complete even now without him. That way, whether he comes back or not, you know you will be fine. Because only if your desire for God is stronger than your desire to be with him you will have a God-honoring relationship. Now that I mentioned the basic reasons why God brings couples back together, I figured it is important to share my personal experience.
As I mention in God brought us back together other blog posts, I believe that God will sometimes end a relationship. In our case, it was because we simply were not ready. But, I, specifically had a to work on my mindset. Long after we were broken up I was still struggling with a very strong and unhealthy soul tie.
The memories of our relationship would trigger emotional and physical pain, to tje point that I lost 15 pounds. That lasted for more than 1 year, until I decided it was time to let go of my ex completely and move on. I was no longer idolizing the relationship or Demi. I finally felt happy again and even had faith that God would bring new love into my life.
Which he did. New love, form a familiar person. A simple one-r that will help you identify and untangle any unhealthy soul tie that is keeping you in bondage. We match everything, but I get more and more anxious because he has no certainty about coming to me, it stresses me a lot, he gets tired and stops contacting. I miss him so much, just looking forward to seeing him.
This was a time I felt alone and my friends were all in full on serious relationships. As I was keeping myself busy as best as I possibly can. I was letting go of a soul tie so I prayed about it and let God know to remove this past person. I then started to pray about the man who I wanted. When I did that a week later I found my most recent ex.
We were great to the point I saw myself being with him forever. I saw marriage and I saw children with this man. Our issues were he lived 1. Him staying made me believe that he truly loves me. Another issue we had was that he kept commenting on others girls social media and this happened more than once. I started to react and message him long text messages for 2 days straight after our break up pleading to work it out.
He said that he need a break, time and space.
I obsess over this because we were okay and he was happy. God put us into a relationship and he took him away. Justine is a certified dating, relationship and life coach who has been blogging on justinemfulama. Her purpose for this site is to help women attract and maintain a godly relationship, by teaching self-love, mastery of the mind and confidence.
Her dating advice and relationship advice is faith-based but practical and sourced from her own and other people's life experience. Pin Table of Contents.God brought us back together
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